Embrace Your Quirks
Embrace Your Quirks
Pay attention to the little details that make you the woman you are. Do you thrive in social situations? Do you get pissed off when you’re interrupted? Don’t try to change. Just knowing these things
about yourself will allow you to become more aware of what you feel, think, and want. With knowledge like this, you’ll be better equipped to be who you WANT to be, rather than who others expect you to be.
There’s something so sexy about being completely comfortable in your own skin and understanding that your flaws make you the unique woman that you are. Find confidence in your imperfections and flaunt them!
Practice Self Care
Once you become more mindful of your needs and wants, practicing good self-care becomes much simpler. You’ll start to recognize when your needs aren’t being met and take action to
fix it. However you recharge—a long candlelit bubble bath, a tough sweat session at the gym, or some time alone with a good book—put self-care at the top of your list. Stop making excuses
and put yourself first for once. After all, you can’t pour from an empty cup.
Stop comparing yourself to others
Accept where you are in your life at this very moment. Sure, we all wish we were ten years younger or ten pounds lighter, but that’s just not reality. Once you accept this, you’ll be able to feel
grateful for what you do have and maybe even want to draw attention to it. Don’t listen to that voice in your head that holds you back. Take a chance, wear the sexy outfit, be happy. And if you can’t help but notice what other women are doing, then simply use that as inspiration to be your best self. You never know what demons a stranger is wrestling, so don’t wish that you could trade lives with someone else. Instead, take note of their admirable traits and aspire to weave them into your own life.
Get out of your Comfort Zone
Part of learning to love yourself is putting in the work to be the woman you want to be, and this often leads to uncovering new aspects of your personality. So check out a trendy spot with your
girlfriends, flirt with that cute stranger at the bar, try something new with your partner, or hey, what better way to push yourself than to flaunt your curves with a boudoir shoot? Whatever you
choose, just force yourself to do something totally unlike you. New experiences actually trigger increased levels of dopamine in the brain, which results in greater happiness. So even though the
thought of putting yourself out there may be terrifying, the risk will be worth the reward.
Live like you mean it
It’s so easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life. As women, we tend to juggle more roles than we should— wife, mother, caretaker, boss babe, etc. So how the heck are we
supposed to find time to take on this self-love journey as well?
My advice—start small and intentionally. Make deliberate choices to help you accomplish the goal of loving yourself. Choose to forgive yourself when you’re late to an event. Choose to turn
down an invitation when you need to rest. Choose to say yes to a project that will bring you joy. These small steps will make a huge impact on the love you show yourself.
Kickstart Your Self-Love Journey
with a Boudoir or Pinup Session!
There’s no better way to start your journey to self-love off on the right foot than by booking a boudoir or pinup session. You’ll be treated to an entire day of pampering and a transformative experience that will help you discover your self-worth and to love the woman you are, just as you are.
Have a look around the blog and make sure to contact me ASAP! Let’s get your session day on my calendar, and let’s create memories that you’ll remember for a lifetime.